Since I made a previous post, which you can read here, about being friends with guys, I thought that I would share my experience with guy friends that you also have small feelings for. I have had multiple occasions in which I've been crushing on a guy that I'm friends with.
I've noticed that one of the best ways to sorta get a guy you like to notice you is by becoming friends with him. However sometimes you may just be friends with a guy. It's always confusing to try and tell whether you are crushing on a guy or if you are simply friends with them. I tend to be a little flirty with most guys that I am friends with. A lot of the time they flirt back.
One guy, that I'm still close friends with, seemed to have a crush on me. Most people thought that him and I were dating or at least had a little something going on. I think he may at one point, probably in middle school, had a crush on me. But I began to sorta like him in high school. Nothing in our friendship seemed different really. He even knew that I was sorta crushing on him. He never would tell me whether he liked me back or not, which was probably a good thing. I still don't know if he ever had a crush on me, but the two of us wouldn't really work because he was just like a brother to me. We're still really good friends today and we still talk everyday and we're even still a little flirty, but we are both just friends.
The truth is I think that it's completely normal to crush on your guy friends. It's completely instinctive to scope out attractive, compatible males. Sometimes it works out and sometimes you two really are meant to just be friends.
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